List Time, or Lately

Life's been wild lately; I've made some decisions that have dramatically changed where I'm going with my life. But, I'm really happy about where I'm headed. So, here're just some thoughts:

- Prayer really is two-way communication. God has encouraged us to talk with Him, not just at Him. It's a whole different experience to really tell God our sincere feelings instead of just saying what we think we should be saying and how we should be saying it. Sometimes we may feel that God couldn't really love us because of who we are or because of what we've done, or we may think that the small things in our lives are insignificant or inappropriate to share with Him. Not so. None of those ideas are true; they are lies designed to keep us from approaching the one person who really does love us unconditionally. No matter what's happened or how imperfect we are, God always wants to hear from us. (Learn more about prayer here)

- Life is exciting and there are loads of cool opportunities we can take advantage of every day. Even if our options are genuinely limited, God can help us to take advantage of the opportunities we are presented.  

- Being true to oneself gives a cool sense of confidence. Placing my worth on others' opinions of me is exhausting and against everything God has told me. My worth comes from knowing that I am God's son and that He loves me. I can learn to love myself and others in that same way. (More info here)

- Change takes time. God's answers take time. Troubles and concerns never end. I think God wants me to learn to be happy in the process, in the moment, each day. There is no "finished" or "ok,-now-I'm-ready-to-go." Every day can be good, no matter how terrible some elements of life may be. I have given those "some" hard elements of my life too much attention. God is helping me look at those as only a part of my life; as He's helping me do this, I am seeing a world of exciting and beautiful people, opportunities, and experiences that have always been mine, but that I have overlooked.

- It has been a process to learn what I've learned, to see what I'm seeing, and to feel what I feel. And I'm not done with my process. But, that's exactly where I need to be. We are where we are, and there are no "oh dear, I've ruined everything" or "this will never work out." These ideas may seem to be real and inescapable, but they're not. They're not real because of Jesus Christ. Through His sacrifice for us, He knows how and is able to help us exactly where we are. The future is not determined by the past. We can place our hope and our trust in Jesus. He will comfort and help us as we learn how to accept Him in our lives.

Click here to learn more about things you can do to accept Jesus more in your life.

We Lived With God Before This Life

Eric, Remember This, or Cool Blog Post I Found

http://www.growinghomeblog.com/2012/02/god-wont-give-you-anything-you-cannot.html

When I Feel That My Efforts Are Insignificant, or God Knows Our Hearts

When No is Right, or When Yes is Assuring

So, prayer is how we talk with Heavenly Father. I have asked for His help with situations and problems and concerns many times. Sometimes God answers almost immediately and I see incredible positive changes or miracles. But, there are other things I ask about that seem to go unanswered and are still unanswered. I am coming to learn that those aren't "unanswered" prayers. They are "not-yet" prayers.

Here are few observations:

1 - "Not-yet" prayers teach us that God actually does have a plan for us. He can do anything, but He won't in these specific situations. That's often because He knows where we will need to be, who we will need to meet, and when and where all of this will need to happen. Sometimes we're just a little early, or at times we may just be barking up the wrong tree. But more often He is just using our current trials or situation to teach us things and change us in ways for which we will thank Him later. We came to earth to learn and grow. And to be changed. Trials are one of the essential ways that growth is facilitated.

2 - "Not-yet" answers are not punishments, and they are not signs that God doesn't love us. It certainly gives God no pleasure to see us go through disappointment after disappointment (Ezekiel 33:11). He really does weep with us when we suffer. I know that.   

3 - That said, I am amazed at how quickly God does respond with a "yes" at other times. When He answers "yes," I think that He hopes to assure us that He really is helping us, and that either answer can be a sign of His concern and perfect knowledge; in other words, "yes" answers can help us accept "not-yet" answers with greater faith because we know God is responding. God wants us to not forget that He cares so much for us, and to know that He will answer "yes" whenever it is the best thing for us. He is our Dad, after all; He'd give anything to help us return to Him; His goal is our ultimate happiness.

Roller Coaster, or The Days After

I talk about roller coasters whenever I can. 

I find that how I feel about things fluctuates. And it can change in just a few minutes. When I'm feeling doubtful or worried about the future, I sometimes wonder how things will work out. But, I haven't given up and I won't. I know and feel assured that everything will be good and that God really does have places for me to go, jobs to find, and people to meet and love.

Neal A. Maxwell said:

"We may not know how to account for our moods at times, but the fact that these moods pass through us ought not to destabilize us so far as the deep doctrines of the Church are concerned. If down moods cannot be driven out at once, we can at least accelerate their transit times.

"It is so easy for one person's bad day to become another person's bad day. A spreading electrical power outage ends up affecting everybody, because early on, the discipline required was abandoned in favor of passing the problem along. Emotional electricity is much like the real thing.

"In any objective assessment of life, we can always be reassured as to the things that matter most: Immortality is ours through the gift and grace of Jesus Christ; there is a loving, caring Father in heaven; and we will live eternally under His perfect rule. We have such high promises and absolutely no reason for ultimate discouragement. Therefore, proximate pessimism ought not to envelop us. We ought not to be blitzed by our moods."

So, I'll remain seated, keep my hands and feet inside the car at all times, hold on tight, and enjoy the ride.  : )

A Sermon by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, or When We Are Looking For Peace

http://lds.org/ensign/1996/11/the-peaceable-things-of-the-kingdom?lang=eng

Another List, or Disappointment

I liked the whole list thing, so here goes another one:

Faith in God and His individual plan for us is a choice. And when the choice to trust God is made, sweet assurances, such as peace and security, are felt. 

God can help us choose to have faith. One way He does so is by preparing us for current challenges through our past experiences.

Remembering who God is and what the purpose of life is eases disappointment. A proper and true perspective changes everything.

Unpleasant feelings aren't meant to be smothered by pretend happiness.

Sometimes we don't receive strong spiritual impressions or experiences from God because we don't need them at that time. Instead, He'll give us less intense doses of ideas or simple thoughts. He wants us to learn to rely on Him, not just on strong feelings or experiences.

Experience allows us to relate with others.

Simply being oneself is so relieving. Trying to guess what others want or expect is both draining and impossible. Really, how could we hope to please everyone all at once? By trying to be what we hope others want, we may temporarily please some people, but we will unknowingly push away those people who want to be close to us. Our true friends and loved ones don't want to be close to the "us" we want people to like. They want to be close to just us, our true selves.

God is the same way. He loves us as we are. And we don't have to pretend with Him. We can, if we want, be our true selves with Him. It does take some practice and trust, but we can learn to do it more constantly and with greater willingness. It becomes easier and easier the more we feel that God's love is consistent and perfect.

Lifting Burdens: The Atonement of Jesus Christ

Babykins Update

Just an update on Babykins (see post here).  He's great at walking now, just like we knew he would be.     : )

Grapes, or How I Feel About God

“The sun is the majestic central feature of the solar system, and everything else in that system is subservient to it. Yet in some distant village on a small plot of land tended by a struggling and anonymous father caring for the needs of his family, the sun ripens to perfection a single cluster of his grapes as if it had nothing else in all the world to do.”

-Anonymous

In Summary, or Lately

These are a few ideas that summarize some of the things I have been learning lately:

My choices matter. If I want to do good and follow God, He will enable me to do so.  

God will not force me to be helped. I must first choose to be helped - I must strive to do what He asks. He has taught me the things I can do to access His help (prayer, service, attending church, reading His word, heeding the Holy Spirit's guidance). When I choose to do these simple things, I put myself spiritually in places where I can receive His help.

My family is incredible. They love me, laugh with me, and listen to me.  

My friends are wonderful. They're all so different, but they are awesome. They're all supportive and such good, good people.

For my job I teach English to people from other countries who are going to be missionaries for my church. I love them. They are my friends. I also love all of my co-workers. I have met some of my favorite people at work.

We are all given contexts in which we live that can restrict our lives and options. These contexts, though, do not remove our opportunity to choose.

God uses people to teach me things - church leaders, friends, professors.  

And God has things He wants to teach us at certain times. Right now He's helping me see the power of choice and what I can do if I really want to. His eternal plan for us is set up so we can discover and achieve what we truly want. Jesus overcame death and sin for us, which we couldn't do for ourselves. Now, everything else is up to us; we are in the process of choosing what we want our immortal lives to be like. Jesus has offered to be our guide to lasting happiness. If we will let Him, He can guide our choices and lead us to joy. And if it is what we want, He will give us the strength to follow Him. 

Determined vs. Choice

"A second truth about our accountability is to know that we are not the helpless victims of our circumstances. The world tries to tell us that the opposite is true: imperfections in our parents or our faulty genetic inheritance are presented to us as absolving us of personal responsibility. But difficult as circumstances may be, they do not relieve us of accountability for our actions or our inactions. Nephi was right. God gives no commandments to the children of men save He prepares a way for them to obey. However difficult our circumstances, we can repent."

-President Henry B. Eyring

http://lds.org/ensign/1999/11/do-not-delay?lang=eng

Guest Post: Nichole Trone

"Ironically enough, in the same way that fear brings to pass what one is afraid of, likewise a forced intention makes impossible what one forcibly wishes... Pleasure is, and must remain, a side-effect or by-product, and is destroyed and spoiled to the degree to which it is made a goal in itself." 

― Viktor E. Frankl

Fear is a selfish feeling. It is the opposite of gratitude. I've been coming to terms with the anxiety that seizes me, inexplicably at times. It often manifests itself when changes are taking place in my life, when big decisions need to be made, and when relationships are being formed, along with other stresses. At this time in my life, almost all of these conditions are present and so I've found myself struggling with the fears that grip me in the midst of great blessings. I get frustrated with myself and I wish I had a switch I could flip off to quell the fear. It makes me want to call myself crazy or neurotic and yet I know my intentions are good. So, what makes me scared? And, more importantly, what can I do to have courage and enjoy life?

I believe that fear often comes from selfishness and it is a faith issue. When I am scared I know that feeling comes from the fear that my deepest desires will be left unfulfilled. Do I believe the Lord when He tells us repeatedly "Ask, and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you"? The truth is, most of the time I do, but sometimes I falter. I am so grateful for the kind people who remind me of who I really am and what I am capable of. In my times of need I have had friends reassure me of my strength and share their wisdom with me. They are answers to my prayers.

The answer to fear is simple in expression, but complicated to execute. It is simply gratitude. Instead of worrying about my own needs being met, I can reach out to others and stop focusing on what I perceive as missing from my life. In reality, as long as I'm seeing the holes in my life, I will not see what is actually present. There will never be enough for me if I am never satisfied.Viktor Frankl more eloquently said:

"Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run - in the long-run, I say! - success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it."

I'll admit, this has been somewhat of a gripe for me. Why must I deny what I am seeking in order to find it? The same goes for relationships. As soon as I look for love, I find disappointment, but when it comes to me unsought I can appreciate it more fully because I have experienced a single life and embraced it. I'm not saying I'm good at this yet, because I'm not, but at least I know what I should do. I should allow myself to love without fear and enjoy the process instead of fearing the end from the beginning, which is a self-fulfilling prophesy.

I need to apply this principle to something I have already accomplished. This summer, for example, I was learning how to drive a school bus: a giant, yellow, 14-ton-machine that does not operate in the same way a car works. I'll admit, it scared me a little to drive one at first, but I didn't picture myself failing. I took it on as a challenging project and I believed I was capable of accomplishing the task. At one point in my training, I was pulled aside by my trainer and told that I was coming along more slowly than others. She was concerned that I wouldn't be able to fully realize my goal of becoming certified. Her confidence in my ability was shaken by my slow progress and it affected my performance for a good week or two. I shouldn't have allowed that criticism to make me doubt myself, but it did for a while. I took my commercial driver's license test the first time and failed it. I went home fearing that I wouldn't be able to continue, although my mistake had been a minor technicality, but then I prayed for help. I focused on my strengths and continued with a smile on my face. The second time I passed. It was a great feeling. Now I can drive without the anxiety I felt then. I enjoy it now. I can focus on attending to the needs of the students because I am past my own fears. The same goes for other fears. When I can get past them, I can attend to the needs of others more effectively. I hope I can always remember this. It doesn't mean that I am always perfect at what I am doing. I hit a telephone pole with my bus a while ago and it shook my confidence, but I didn't quit (and thankfully wasn't fired) and I continue to improve my driving skills.

Fear keeps me from becoming who I am supposed to be. It clouds my perception of myself and others. I am going to do my best to focus on gratitude and be a force for good. 

http://agirlwho.blogspot.com/2011/11/cure-for-fear-is-gratitude.html

Mother’s Christmas Mouse, by Betty LeBaron Mostert

When I was a child in the 1950s and 1960s, our Christmas traditions were not elaborate—except for the stockings. Because we children enjoyed our Christmas stockings so much, we continued the tradition when we married and had children of our own. Buying surprises and assembling dozens of Christmas stockings, however, soon became too much for my aging parents, especially my mother, who had a serious case of rheumatoid arthritis that limited her mobility and energy.

Eventually, I volunteered to take over the project. Our annual extended family home evening, in which we acted out the Christmas story and opened our stockings, found me exhausted from the demands of being the mother of several small children and juggling the events of an active life. As I watched everyone dump treasures out of the gingham Christmas stockings I had carefully prepared, I was feeling a little sorry for myself.

As expected, my stocking was empty except for the standard candy cane and Japanese orange that I had placed there earlier. But as I shook them out, I noticed a little bedraggled mouse made of a walnut and hazelnuts. One ear was much bigger than the other, and the whiskers were crooked. The tail had been cut too short, and the loop to hang it on the tree was off center. I was confused. Had someone’s kindergarten project ended up in my stocking?

I looked up and saw my mother watching me from her wheelchair across the room. With a gnarled, bent finger, she beckoned to me.

“I wanted to do something for the Christmas stockings,” she said. “They made these little mice in Relief Society, and they were so cute.”

Her tears were close to the surface, and her gentle voice shook as she continued.

“I couldn’t get my fingers to work, so I made only one. It didn’t turn out, but I knew you wouldn’t mind.”

I looked again at the little mouse in my hand. She was right. I didn’t mind. In fact, her little bedraggled mouse became the most precious treasure of all that Christmas.

For more than 20 years, I have tenderly removed the tissue paper from the misshapen mouse crafted by misshapen fingers and carefully placed it on a branch. My angel mother has been free of her crippled body for several years, but her Christmas mouse reminds me of two profound truths.

The first is that my mother honored me by believing that I could look past the mouse’s crooked ears and feel the love and sacrifice that went into its creation. The second is that if I, as an imperfect mortal, am capable of finding beauty in a humble little mouse, how much more is our Father in Heaven capable of seeing past our imperfect efforts and understanding our pure intentions.

I know that when we do our best to give to others and to Him, our gift is not just good enough—it is of incalculable worth.

Read other Christmas stories:
http://lds.org/ensign/2007/12/latter-day-saint-voices/mothers-christmas-mouse?lang=eng&query=walnuts+christmas

Men's Hearts Shall Fail Them

Life, or Trains

“Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed. The fact is that most putts don’t drop, most beef is tough, most children grow up to be just like people, most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration, and most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. Life is just like an old time rail journey ... delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride.” 

― Jenkin Lloyd Jones

Hold On, or He is Answering

Today was interesting. I felt very anxious and was worried that I am not who I need to be, or that I am not who I desperately want to be for me and for others. I felt afraid and I felt distance growing inside me. I prayed and prayed, but it seemed that the help I needed wasn't coming. As I kept going through my day, I did start to feel a little better. But it was later when I really felt the answer I had been craving. There was a church activity planned that I wasn't sure if I would have time to go to because of a work meeting, but I decided to go and just leave a little early. I'm glad I did. There I felt a sweet feeling of comfort, along with a renewal of perspective. Everything really will be ok. I don't need to be afraid. Things will be wonderful.

God answered my prayers. He was actually listening and responding to my prayers all day, but in ways that I didn't recognize or didn't want, or that just needed some time to develop. I wanted immediate responses and assurances, but today He was setting things up for me so I would really learn some valuable truths in ways that would make a true impact on me. I thought He wasn't answering me; in actuality, He was, and more than I realized: He was leading me to people and settings and ideas that would help me find the relief I was looking for. He knew that, today, I needed to be taught in a certain way.  He does know best.

I know that there are times when we must pray and stand up and keep on going without receiving a clear answer or feeling or response. But, I know that God does not ignore us. He is listening and answering. I have learned that God rarely changes our situations immediately; He changes our hearts and our perspectives. Situations may stay the same for a while, but if we can see things clearly, or see them as He sees them, we can be filled with hope that everything will be ok.  

Guest Post: Julie Meyers

"A few weeks ago, I was deeply offended by someone I love dearly.  I felt positive that this person’s actions were wrong and that I was right.  I wanted so much for this person to acknowledge the hurt he/she had caused and to apologize.  I couldn’t think about anything else except getting this person to recognize the error of his/her ways.  In an attempt to justify my angry feelings, I turned to the scriptures for guidance.  Instead of finding validation for my bitterness, I was gently led by the Lord to the following counsel in the 64th section of the Doctrine and Covenants*:

8 My disciples, in days of old, sought occasion against one another and forgave not one another in their hearts; and for this evil they were afflicted and sorely chastened.

 9 Wherefore, I say unto you, that ye ought to forgive one another; for he that forgiveth not his brother his trespasses standeth condemned before the Lord; for there remaineth in him the greater sin.

 10 I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men.

 11 And ye ought to say in your hearts—let God judge between me and thee, and reward thee according to thy deeds.

"I was chastened.  I prayed for help to let go of these resentful feelings, and almost instantly, I felt complete peace, whereas holding onto my grudge caused me to feel “afflicted,” as the scripture states.  Even though forgiveness is not the world’s philosophy and is indeed our natural and usually first response to being offended or hurt, it is the only way to find true happiness. 

"I was also struck by the words in verse 8, where the Lord states that his disciples had not forgiven each other “in their hearts.”  So often, I have said, “Oh, that’s okay,” when someone has apologized yet then held on to secret resentments in my heart.  Anger and frustration are destructive and halt our progression, while forgiveness is healing and beautiful and allows us to move forward in our relationships and our own personal growth."

*The Doctrine and Covenants is a collection of divine revelations . . . given of God through his chosen prophets for the restoration of his holy work . . . in these days” (Explanatory Introduction, Doctrine and Covenants).

Guest Post: Lisa Christensen

I have invited some people I know to contribute to my blog. I asked them to share some of their experiences and thoughts about life, God, hardships, etc. Here is the first of a few. This is by Lisa Christensen.

"There are many impressive things in the world. Utah rain is typically not one of them. But on one spring day last year, the clouds opened up and released the kind of heavy, sustained sheets of water that have been the backdrop for many a passionate movie kiss.

"I love rain, and would have been more inclined to celebrate the miracle of substantial precipitation were I not two miles from home and without a car in the middle of the night. The clouds had begun to break just before I left a friend's house. I had loaned out my car, and had the borrowers drop me off for a party. It had not been raining when I had left my car and I did not think to take an umbrella. It also did not occur to me to ask anyone for a ride. For some reason, on that rainy spring night, I simply hoofed it.

"The first several blocks were pleasant, an adventure. Running between the raindrops was impossible, but leaping over small puddles in the sidewalks or streams rushing down the storm drains was fun, and I was enjoying the novelty. By the time I approached a mile, though, my clothes were soaked through and my hair was dripping wet.

"Coming down the home stretch of more than a half mile in length, I finally found a tree big and broad enough to give a little dry cover against the rainstorm. As it happened, this blessed respite was across the street from the Logan Utah Temple. The bright light emanating from its white domes, perhaps made more brilliant in contrasting the angry, dark clouds above.

"Huddling there against the magnificent tree with the temple standing so near, my shivering was suddenly insignificant and my sopping clothes no longer mattered. In the peace that took the place of those temporal problems, I finally noticed the stillness echoing amidst the raindrops.

"Of course, I couldn't stay there forever. It was still pouring and midnight and I was still several blocks away from a hot shower and warm bed. And I realize I should have called someone at some point, which eventually became more a point of pride than forgetfulness, but this is not a story about stubbornness. This is a story about moments of peace amidst storms literal and figurative.

"Life is hard. I don't believe it's much of a stretch to apply the literal raindrops to the figurative bombardment of hardship and difficulty we face every day. And they might seem novel at first, but the torrent of anger and contention and woe that seem to fill most arenas of our modern world wears on the body and soul of a person. Everyone needs a tree under which to stand, if only for a minute, and become refreshed in the image of God and things greater than a little rain. Church or temple attendance are certainly shelters, as can be meetings with good friends or family, or even taking a moment to revel in miracle that is life and the universe and everything.

"And then can we head back into the tempest, perhaps not yet dry but ready again to face and endure for a little longer."

Trust and Timing, or Something I Read in the Church Program Today

This is an excerpt from a talk given in 1994 by Elder Dallin H. Oaks, who is a living apostle of God (like Paul or Peter from New Testament times):

"When we have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, we must have trust in him. We must trust him enough that we are content to accept his will, knowing that he knows what is best for us...

"Here we see the Savior’s absolute faith and trust in the Father. “Nevertheless,” he said, “not my will, but thine be done.” The Father’s answer was to deny the plea of his Only Begotten Son. The Atonement had to be worked out by that lamb without blemish. But though the Son’s request was denied, his prayer was answered. The scripture records: “And there appeared an angel unto him from heaven, strengthening him” (JST, Luke 22:43).

"Strengthened from heaven to do the will of the Father, the Savior fulfilled his mission. “And being in an agony, he prayed more earnestly; and he sweat as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground” (JST, Luke 22:44).

"When we try to develop faith in the Lord Jesus Christ rather than merely cultivating faith as an abstract principle of power, we understand the meaning of the Savior’s words: “If ye will have faith in me ye shall have power to do whatsoever thing is expedient in me” (Moro. 7:33).

"Here the Savior reminds us that faith, no matter how strong it is, cannot produce a result contrary to the will of him whose power it is. The exercise of faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is always subject to the order of heaven, to the goodness and will and wisdom and timing of the Lord. That is why we cannot have true faith in the Lord without also having complete trust in the Lord’s will and in the Lord’s timing. When we have that kind of faith and trust in the Lord, we have true security in our lives. President Spencer W. Kimball said, “Security is not born of inexhaustible wealth but of unquenchable faith” (The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, ed. Edward L. Kimball, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1982, pp. 72–73)."

To read the full talk, go to http://lds.org/general-conference/1994/04/faith-in-the-lord-jesus-christ?lang=eng&query=Elder+(name%3a%22Dallin+H.+Oaks%22)

To learn more about living apostles and why and how God has called prophets and apostles in modern times, go to http://mormon.org/restoration/

Has God Forgotten Me?, or Have I Forgotten God?

"Memory is a net; one finds it full of fish when he takes it from the brook; but a dozen of miles of water have run through it without sticking."

-Olivier Wendell Holmes

When hard times come and seem to stay and stay, we sometimes ask where God is and why He hasn't kept His promises. As we look at our lives we may see unfairness or abandonment. We may feel picked on or ignored.

It is at these times that we must rely on our understanding of who God is and why we're on earth; we must rely on our faith. We build faith and we are just passing through times when it is meant to be used. These are times to not forget all that God has done and continues to do for us.  

"Memory is a net; one finds it full of fish when he takes it from the brook;

but a dozen of miles of water have run through it without sticking."

It is surprisingly easy to focus on our problems and overlook all the good that we have in our lives.  

We can be so focused on our life that seems to be "full of fish" that we ignore the "dozen[s] of miles of water that have run though" our lives without us recognizing them. We have food, water, a house or a place to live, senses, family, friends, we can communicate with God, we have chairs, plates, entertainment, commandments and guidance, health, the ability to feel emotions, an understanding of our reason of living, a hope for a joyful and perfect future, etc., etc.  

If all I had tomorrow is what I thanked God for today, what would I have tomorrow?

I know that God supports us during our trials. He does not abandon us. He supports us with "miles of water" all the while we are going through difficult things. As we choose to thank Him for everything He has given us, our faith in Him will grow and we will feel greater peace. We will see that God has not forgotten us; we have just forgotten Him.

"Memory is a net; one finds it full of fish when he takes it from the brook;

but a dozen of miles of water have run through it without sticking." 

Weakness, or Feeling Bad About Oneself

This is an excerpt from an article written by Elder Glenn L. Pace.  

"Many Latter-day Saints know the Church is true but have unhealthy feelings about their own inadequacies, real or imagined. The scriptures inform us that we all have weaknesses and that there is a place for them in our spiritual progress: “If men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them” (Ether 12:27).

"Too often we wallow in our weaknesses so much that we do not allow “weak things” to “become strong.” Our condition is frequently misdiagnosed as humility, when in reality it is a lack of confidence.

"What is the difference between the two?

"To be humble is to recognize our utter dependence upon the Lord. We are conscious of our strengths, but we do not exalt ourselves and become prideful, for we know that all good things ultimately come from God. We are conscious of our weaknesses, but we know the Lord can use those very weaknesses to bless our lives and that through Him, as we learn from the book of Ether, our weaknesses can become strengths.

"To lack confidence is to have feelings of low self-worth. We are preoccupied with our weaknesses, and we lack faith in the Lord’s ability to use those weaknesses for our good. We do not understand our inestimable worth in the eyes of God, nor do we appreciate our divine potential. Ironically, both pride and a lack of self-confidence cause us to focus excessively on ourselves and to deny the power of God in our lives.

"Dr. Thomas Harris made the following wise observation on insecurity and confidence: “Most people never fulfill their human promise and potential because they remain perpetually helpless children overwhelmed by a sense of inferiority. The feeling of being okay does not imply that the person has risen above all his faults and emotional problems. It merely implies that he refuses to be paralyzed by them.” ¹

"I am impressed by President Gordon B. Hinckley’s personal philosophy, which we all would do well to adopt: “I believe in myself. I do not mean to say this with egotism. But I believe in my capacity and in your capacity to do good, to make some contribution to the society of which we are a part, [and] to grow and develop. … I believe in the principle that I can make a difference in this world, be it ever so small.”

To read the whole article, go to http://lds.org/ensign/2005/01/confidence-and-self-worth?lang=eng&query=confidence+self-worth

What is General Conference All About?, or What Is God Saying To The World Today?

General Conference is a series of meetings held each April and October. God's living prophets and apostles teach us what God wants us to know and how we can live to find peace and satisfaction (just like Isaiah, Moses, Paul did - they were chosen by God to teach the world about Him, and so they did). God didn't just speak during Bible times. He speaks now! As you apply what the prophets teach, your relationship with God will improve. You will see your life begin to fill with even more happiness than you currently have. You will find direction in a world that is losing its moral footings. You will know what God is saying right now about our world, culture, and our situations, etc. You will feel the Holy Ghost as you listen to the words of these apostles, for I know that they are actual prophets of God.

To learn more about modern prophets and apostles, go to http://mormon.org/restoration/

or to learn more about the specific apostles in this video, go to http://lds.org/church/leader/thomas-s-monson?lang=eng